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help me
July 28, 2010
from FunLadyInKitchener37  FunLadyInKitchener37
Kitchener
ok some one want to tell me what is wrong why do people turn a blind eye on me, i am only dealing with a mental issue not like its uncure able its only depression so why do people treat me like i am so sick i can't do anything
 
RE: help me
August 01, 2010
from SingleGuyInBelize30  SingleGuyInBelize30
Lagos
Hi dear can i be der for you if you will allow me
 
RE: help me
August 03, 2010
from Wildgrl90
Town and Country
I'll can take a stab at this one. Note: I don't know the conversations, and i'm going make a lot of assumptions. Please don't be offended. But I DO UNDERSTAND YOU - First person. It really depends on how much you are using it as a crutch. I know it happens, because I catch myself 'spilling too many beans' myself. Too much too soon can make the other person think your too needy, OR that you crave pity. Constantly bring it up or adding on means "drama". It makes people want to run away. Personally, I hate pity. I hate getting it from others. i.e "oh you poor girl" and I hate when i catch myself offering pity, sometimes making me seem like a heartless bitch...but so be it. Pity helps nothing!! It only makes you feel pathetic, which is always unhealthy and never true. It needs to be avoided like the plague. My advise - Don't bring up any personally challenges unless asked specifically about them. Then be careful not to spill too much at once. Some things need to be spoon fed so they can digest better. Force-feeding always makes for an upset tummy. Just like too much sugar can make you sick, too many sour grapes does the same. A balanced blend - makes wine. Hope it helps, Tara
 
RE: help me
August 13, 2010
from germanicus20  germanicus20
White Oak
I am offended because you don't understand her. No one wants to be depressed. We use crutches because we want to. She is not using that as crutch. She would rather not have it. No drama, pity, or any of that. You may be talking about yourself. A lot of depression is anger turned inward. Rather than hurt others you hurt yourself. It is hard to get out of that is why once your in you are looking for a way out not to stay inside. No, this approach of your does not work. It is counter productive. It makes things worse by giving someone more to be depressed about. It is deeper than just saying Hey stop being depressed!"
 
RE: help me
August 22, 2010
from FunGuyInSheffield307  FunGuyInSheffield307
Sheffield
FunladyKitchener are you okay love.
 
RE: help me
August 28, 2010
from docd51  docd51
Rumson
For me the only thing wrong is you are just to fare away. I think you are a great looking lady don't let anyone tell you different.
 
RE: Take it easy
August 30, 2010
from SingleGuyInKenya426  SingleGuyInKenya426
Nairobi
Hi, you need not worry so much about them, i would love you without hesitate.
 
RE: help me
August 30, 2010
from kateforlove34  
Aiea
pls. write me an email I have something to share with you privately. ***
 
RE: help me
September 01, 2010
from DL1055  DL1055
Baltimore
i know where your coming from baby.some people r just so judgemental.people seem to fear the unknown...it's like if they dont have it ...fuck it and fuck people who have it and i dont want no parts of it...instead of investigating the situation and reading up on it.you are very attractive and have you whole life ahead of you baby,don't let a few assholes make you feel bad about yourelf.i feel you need a support group to attend and also achurch to attend also. you can't goe wrong with these behind you.praying for you ,keep your head up.people care...i care and i wish u nothing but the best....ur friend donna
 
RE: help me
September 01, 2010
from DL1055  DL1055
Baltimore
i know where your coming from baby.some people r just so judgemental.people seem to fear the unknown...it's like if they dont have it ...fuck it and fuck people who have it and i dont want no parts of it...instead of investigating the situation and reading up on it.you are very attractive and have you whole life ahead of you baby,don't let a few assholes make you feel bad about yourelf.i feel you need a support group to attend and also achurch to attend also. you can't goe wrong with these behind you.praying for you ,keep your head up.people care...i care and i wish u nothing but the best....ur friend donna


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